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May 31 Big DayHello everyone,
Jolee had a big day today, a day where she had to be a fighter and win. This morning we were told that the ECMO machine she is on was beginning to go bad and wouldn't last through the weekend. So they wanted to check her heart while off ECMO for 3 hours and decide if she should go back on a 3rd ECMO machine. The Doctor said that if her hypertension was still severe then most likely it would not get better with the 3rd ECMO. But if she showed improvement then the 3rd ECMO machine would be a good idea.
After 3 hours off ECMO they decided that she was doing well enough to stay off ECMO for good. Since 3:00 this afternoon she has been off of ECMO and around 10:00 this evening she had the tubes in her heart that were attached to the ECMO removed. Jolee also had a chest tube put in on her god side because of fluid surrounding her lung. She is steady thus far but only time will tell. Her blood pressure dropping is still an issue as well as the hypertension returning. Her battle is just beginning and surgery is really not on the table yet because of the possibility of the hypertension coming back. I am going to spend the night with her tonight doing puzzles then Krista will show up in the morning to relieve me. I am off to grab some coffee! Good Night
Joe May 30 More Thank you'sJust a few more thank you's to Marsha, Uncle Jon, Aunt Karen, Meridith and Davis. Also, Thank you to Grandma Carlsen.
Love, Joe and Krista The waiting gameThings have been pretty slow on ECMO the past couple days which is what we want. JJ is pretty swollen but they are working on this with diuretics and by adding a filter to the ECMO circuit to remove extra fluid (they think she's up about 1.5 lbs just due to fluid). The doctors want to work on the fluid issue for a couple more days and then repeat the echocardiogram to evaluate the pulmonary hypertension.
JJ is now wearing a pretty lavender bow in her hair - JJ said we could add a picture of her with this once she's a little less puffy.
Since JJ has been lying on her back and can't swallow, secretions build up in her throat, mouth and nose. The nurses suction her mouth and nostrils every few hours and you would not believe what comes out! When the nurse suctioned her nose, it looked like a jellyfish came out, it was unbelievable but I bet JJ felt much better.
A special thanks to Mile Hill Chiropractic (free advertising) for the care package that we received today and will be gone by tonight.
Thank you to everyone for your support and prayers. Joe and Krista May 27 ECMO part twoDear everyone,
It is normal for the ECMO to develop clots within the system over time. It usually happens in the tubes because it is a foreign body for the blood and blood has the tendency to clot. We knew there were clots forming yesterday, so at some point they would have to switch to a different machine. We arrived this morning and the doctor was making plans to switch the machine and it was a good thing because the current ECMO machine was at its limit. JJ was off of ECMO for 3 hrs. An echocardiogram was done during this time which shows improvement in her heart but she needs to improve more before ECMO can be discontinued. She is on the new ECMO and the doctors anticipate at least 5 more days before weaning her (this can take a couple attempts).
Thanks to Aunt Val for putting up new pictures (by the way, the cute green dinosaur is Blake). Thanks to everyone for your support. Keep the prayers coming for JJ's pulmonary hypertension to resolve!
Love, Joe and Krista First Week 3rd set of picsHere are some new pics. Jolee is a champion! Of course, I know where she gets her strength.
I included a picture of a Blake-osaur, sighted at the Ronald McDonald House. Ahhhhhh!
Love, Val May 25 EyesHello,
JJ opened her eyes for her father yesterday, they were as blue as her brothers. Even though they were open for a couple seconds it was great to finally see them. Her ECMO treatment is going well, she is resting like she should. Because her heart was working so hard it had gotten enlarged, but now that she is on ECMO it is getting back to its normal size.
Usually while on ECMO, babies lungs deflate due to them resting, and on X-ray their chest is white. JJ's lungs are not deflating, which is a good thing because she still wants to use them. Since the heart is almost the size it should be and her lungs are still inflated, her heart has shifted a little bit back to the left with the stomach moving down just a tad. Oh, and the best part is that you can see lung on the left!! It is even more than they suspected which is great. Now as long as her heart can function off of ECMO I think she will be in good shape. We won't know for a couple days because they want her on ECMO for at least 6 days. The only issues with ECMO are brain bleeds (rare) because of blood thinners and clots within the machine itself. As long as those are kept in check, JJ can get off ECMO to see if her heart got enough rest.
Aunt Lisa and Aunt Marsha are visiting today, hurray and Blake spent the night with us at the Ronald McDonald house. I think he enjoyed taking off mom and dads covers on the bed like he did at home. OK, I promise we will try to get more pictures. It is hard to leave the hospital with the shape she is in to put up pictures but since she is stable I will try. Thank you for your support.
Joe
PS There is a link on the list at the right to give a better description of ECMO. May 24 RestingJJ started her ECMO run around 1pm yesterday. It was a hard day. Her numbers had been doing so well and then it was so scary to see things keep going the wrong direction. It was also scary because there just happened to be another patient in pediatrics that needed ECMO and they were telling us this patient was sicker and that we would have to wait for them to be put on first. It worked out that this patient needed further testing and JJ started sooner than we expected. She looks so much better now though despite being swollen. They've decreased some of the meds that were paralyzing and sedating her. She was squeezing my finger this morning (melts your heart) and her eyes were moving around under her puffy eyelids.
Joe is getting some much needed rest this am. He is hoping to spend more time with Blake today. He loves the air hockey table here at the Ronald McDonald's house and is pretty good at it. Blake was breaking our hearts last night as he left to go home with grandmas. Such an emotional day!!
Pray for JJ's pulmonary hypertension to lessen and resolve over this rest period for her heart and lungs.
Krista May 23 ECMOHello everyone,
Last night was a rough. At midnight she was not doing so hot. They had to increase just about everything ie. ventilator, drugs... At 2:30 they did a blood gas which came back with good results, so I went home and fell into bed. I woke up to our phone ringing and Krista answered. It has been decided that she go on ECMO today because her little heart is just working to hard can't keep up with the stress of trying to keep her numbers up. Hopefully the ECMO will allow her heart and lungs to rest enough so she can continue without it. Right now she is a little swollen because of the extra fluids she is receiving to keep her blood pressure up and the pulmonary hypertension down but she is still beautiful.
I am taking pictures of everything I can so that one day she can show everyone (especially boys) how tough she is and was during this time of her life. Surgery is off of course and won't be considered until we know how she handles the ECMO. We know that she will be on ECMO for the next couple days no matter what. I really don't know when we will get pictures up, hopefully soon. Thank you to everyone for all you have done and for the support you have given Krista and I.
Joe May 22 A changeHello everyone,
There was a change last night and it wasn't a good one. We were told that some CDH babies have a honeymoon period and then go through some hard times. We were hoping that it wouldn't happen to us, unfortunately it did.
Last night at 12:00am Jolee was doing fine. She then developed a slight fever and her vitals were not looking as good (lower oxygen levels and blood pressure). Blood cultures and sputum cultures are being done to rule out infection. Jolee had a echocardiogram (ultrasound of the heart) and she still has significant pulmonary hypertension and one of her heart valves is regurgitating blood. They added nitric oxide to help her lungs, antibiotics for possible infection as well as ativan and morphine drip to keep her calm and sedated. After some of these changes, her blood gases are looking better and the white count is looking negative for infection. However, if things were not to continue to improve then she will be considered for ECMO.
It will be a long challenging night and next couple days with the possibility of surgery on Thursday if she does better with the changes. She is still daddy's beautiful baby girl. Thank you for staying in touch
Joe May 21 special visitorsHello,
We had some special visitors yesterday, my mom's cousin Bernie, his wife Rosemary and daughter Katie came to visit. They also brought LEMON BARS!!!! It is always nice to see and visit with family. Another surprise visit was my sister-inlaw Marsha and my niece Sidney. I knew that she was trying to find a way to travel the 3+ hours, but I turned around and there they were. Blake was soooo excited to see his baby cousin. It was nice for him to see someone from home.
Jolee had an uneventful day, which is a great day because nothing went wrong. She continues to be stable, but of course they increased her Dopamine because that darn Blood Pressure doesn't want to stay put. Last nights nurse said she attempted to rip all of her lines out so they had to give her some adevan(Sp?) to keep that from happening. We will try to get more pictures posted because she looks a lot different then the first posted pictures. Take Care
Joe May 20 Last night notesHello everybody,
This is Joe, I was repremanded(sp?) for being corny the last time I wrote so I promised Krista I would be better:). I went in to see Jolee this morning, because I am taking Blake out for some father/son time. She had a pretty quiet night. Some positives are that she breathed 21% oxygen level all night which is the same level of oxygen that we breath everyday. Before, they would have it set at around 40% so she is making progress. Also, they turned down her vent a little bit over night and for now she is tolerating it. They dropped her morphine level down too. Jolee does not handle touch well. So, the nurse last night taught Krista and I how to just put pressure on her with are hands so it feels like being in the womb again.
All her blood gases and such have been good so far. Her blood pressure is slowly stabalizing, they increased her Dopamine just a tad.
I forgot what it was like to get up every couple hours, Krista is pumping quite a bit now and last night the alarm was going off every time I shut my eyes. I will get used to it again. Thank you to everyone who is keeping up with us, we love the support. Take care
Joe May 19 More from Jolee's MomShe's here and we love our new baby girl! We just finished visiting her tonight and I got to help take JJ's temperature and help change her diaper. She's doing well but is still adjusting to life on the outside and doesn't like to be tinkered with very much yet. It's hard to wait for all the things we want to do like holding her but she's setting the pace. The neonatogist said we'll probably just keep doing what we're doing for a few days and surgery is likely later next week.
We have had such good care!! I was discharged this morning. I'm feeling sore and tired but hanging in there. I was very anxious for the delivery. I was induced and not sure what to expect with the induction and with JJ after she was born. Things progressed very fast (I didn't realize it at the time though). I had a natural delivery with Blake and was attempting one with JJ. I requested an epidural and got one - but by the time it was placed I had just had the test bolus and then it was time to push. JJ was delivered, gave a little cry and was whisked away. The nurses were great. As soon as they could, they got me in a wheelchair to see my baby.
Better start working on the sleep department before getting too far behind. We checked into the Ronald McDonald house which is on the same campus as the hospital. It's wonderful!!! Eventually we'll probably go back and forth from my mom's house, but for now we want to be as close as possible.
OK, I'm really going to bed now. We'll keep you posted.
Krista a few picsIt sounds like things are the same as yesterday. I've added a few pics for Krista and Joe.
Jolee is soooo sweet. I think I saw her swallow yesterday. Blake was singing for her, but he got a little loud. He did very well, but he gets a break from it today to hang out doing normal things. The nurse asked him if he had any questions and he asked about the "things in her tummy" so the nurse explained about JJ's nutrition.
Love,
Val May 18 24hrs. oldHello everyone,
This is Joe, Krista is waiting for the lactation consultant so I am going to give an update. I guess I will start from the beginning. Around 8:45am yesterday Krista had her membranes ruptured and the start of petocin. A couple hours later she was at 2cm dialated, 1 hour after that she was 5cm dialated with 90% effaced(sp?). 20 minutes later she was 8-9 cm dialated and ready to go!!!
Krista pushed hard for maybe ten minutes and then there was the most beautiful baby girl in the world, even not clean she was gorgeous
Her coloring is great and is on a oscillator, or ventillator that pumps quick bursts of oxygen into Jolee. You can see her trying to breath on her own which kept her CO2 levels down enough that they decreased the ventilator but JJ didn't like that and her CO2 levels went back up so of course the ventilator went up.
Right now the real concern is her blood pressure, which has continually dropped over night. So, they put her on Dopamine to level it off. She is also on Morphine to keep her calm. We saw chest X-rays and they determined that she has a moderate to extreme case of CDH. All her entestines are in her chest.... touch your clavicle or collarbone and that is where they reach. We will not know how much lung is on that side until after the surgery is performed (hopefully a few more days). They cannot tell if the liver is up on x-ray due to it being a solid organ without any gas in it.
I saw her open her eyes once but not enough to see any color. She has strawberry blonde hair and Blakes nose. Blake saw his baby sister for the first time this morning. He gave her a stuffed bunny and touched her hand. He told her that he loved her and then tried to take away the bunny he just gave her
We are staying in the hospital one more night and then possibly the Ronald McDonald house. Anyone who is able to visit is more than welcome. To see Jolee, you must not be sick or have a runny nose in any shape or form and must be over 16 years old, sorry, hospital rules. Blake is a sibling so he can see her.
Since I am at the hospital writing I can't download any pictures, sorry. But I promise tomorrow afternoon or night there will be pictures. If you want to picture her in your mind just think what a beautiful rainbow looks like and you will be close
Joe
PS I didn't know they made these, but for moms after giving birth they have adult diapers with ice packs built in!! I thought they were pretty cool myself. If I was a bull rider, I would by the Cosco pack. One day oldJJ is here! From an Aunt's perspective, she is beautiful, loveable, precious, and sweet!
A fast delivery:
JJ was born at 1:41 pm after Krista checked in at 8 am.
weighing 6lb 11oz
and measuring 20 inches
It sounds like Jolee is off to a good start for the days ahead. Go girl go!!!
The update this morning is that they are working on her blood pressure and she is on a ventilator.
Blake is in a great mood this morning and has a few of us to keep him spoiled, can't help it
Love, Aunt Val
May 11 Countdown is on...Had my last appointment before delivery! The plan is to be admitted next Wednesday morning. So far, keeping pretty relaxed. Sleeping as well as any 9 month pregnant lady can - I don't think we'll be able to sleep well at all on Tuesday night though. Just working now on those last details such as packing a hospital bag etc. We'll have help from my mom and Joe's parents in case we forget anything and to help with Blake!
Blake and I are getting lots of "mom and me" time in. He can tell something is going on and sure misses his dad. Joe has been coming down on weekends and then will stay down starting on Tuesday.
Will try to keep this updated, but not sure what the computer situation will be like yet. Still pretty new at blogging, posting pictures, etc.
Krista May 02 Birthday appointmentIt was my birthday today and at our appointment we set a date for JJ's birthday - May 17th, two weeks from tomorrow!! My last appointment before then is Thursday of next week. My doctor will check to see how "ripe" my cervix is. If it is, I'll come in the morning of May 17th and he'll break my water. He's hoping that will be enough to get things going (I had that done after about 6 hrs labor with Blake and then he was born about 6 hrs later). If my cervix isn't quite ripe, I'll come in the night before for prostaglandins, then pitocin.
We also had an ultrasound. JJ's growth is good. She about 6 lbs now and active. Her head is down.
Blake and I are now staying at my mom's in case JJ doesn't like our plan for the 17th.
Can't believe she's just around the corner. Feeling scared of the unknown, but anxious to meet our little girl. Trying to prepare as much as possible and still get some rest and relaxation in before things get hectic. We'll try to post more as things pick up. Thanks for reading and for keeping us in your thoughts and prayers! Krista |
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